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Part 2 of the Attachment Series. If you keep asking "are we okay?" and the reassurance never lasts, this episode explains anxious attachment and offers practical tools for both partners to build lasting security.

Part 1 of the Attachment Series. Dr. Pemberton explains how attachment patterns formed early in life shape the way you love, react, and connect in marriage, and introduces the four attachment styles.

This episode explains why small moments like an eye roll or checking a phone can ignite intense conflict by activating implicit memory stored in the nervous system rather than explicit, verbal memory.

This episode explains how many marital “communication” problems are actually clashes between two nervous systems shaped bThisy childhood attachment patterns.

It’s Not a Communication Problem—It’s the Cycle (Pursue/Withdraw) | EFT Couples Therapy Dr. Larry Pemberton explains the recurring “cycle” (or “demon dialogues”) many long-term couples get stuck in, where a small trigger quickly escalates into the same patterned fight.

Part 2 of the Attachment Series. If you keep asking "are we okay?" and the reassurance never lasts, this episode explains anxious attachment and offers practical tools for both partners to build lasting security.

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